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Recreated for this portfolio. The original coaching materials belong to my former employer, a home care company, so this version shows the same method without confidential details. Informed by my Cognitive Coaching training (Foundation and Advanced); structure and wording are my own.
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Most manager coaching programs end at the workshop. Managers leave with a model and a handout, and nobody checks whether the conversations they have on Tuesday look anything like what they practiced. The program gets rated on attendance and satisfaction, which measures the training, not the behavior.
I trained 6 of our 7 managers to move from directive management to coaching, and coached 15+ coordinators alongside them. I needed to know whether they were coaching after I stopped watching, not whether they liked the session.
| Stage | What happens | What it proves |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Co-coach | Group workshop on the model, then the manager coaches coordinators alongside me. I model, then they lead while I watch and debrief. | They can run the conversation with support |
| 2. Solo, recorded | The manager coaches without me. Every coaching call is recorded. | They can run it when no one is in the room |
| 3. Scored over time | Periodic AI scoring of transcripts against a four-part rubric, with my own review layered on top. | The behavior holds, or drifts, after training ends |
| Level | What it asks | How this program answered it |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Reaction | Did they like it? | Not the goal. Satisfaction doesn't tell you whether anyone coaches on Tuesday. |
| 2. Learning | Can they do it? | Stage 1: managers coached alongside me before going solo. |
| 3. Behavior | Are they doing it on the job? | Stages 2 and 3: recorded calls, scored against the rubric over time. This is the core of the program. |
| 4. Results | Did the organization change? | Fewer escalations reached me once the manager layer existed, and managers ran performance plans and caregiver issues themselves. Observed, not measured with a number. |
Four observable behaviors. Each one is something you can point to in a transcript, not an impression.
| Behavior | Not yet | Developing | Coaching |
|---|---|---|---|
| Talk ratio | Manager does most of the talking | Roughly even | Coordinator does most of the talking |
| Asking vs telling | Manager supplies the answer | Asks, then answers their own question | Asks, waits, and lets the coordinator reach it |
| Paraphrasing and listening | Moves straight to advice | Paraphrases occasionally | Paraphrases before asking, and the coordinator corrects or confirms it |
| Coordinator-owned next step | Manager assigns the next step | Next step is agreed but manager-shaped | Coordinator names the next step in their own words |
An illustrative excerpt of a reflecting conversation, scored the way the program scored real calls.
| Speaker | What was said | What the rubric sees |
|---|---|---|
| Manager | "How do you think yesterday's coverage call went?" | Asking, not telling |
| Coordinator | "Honestly, not great. I called three caregivers, nobody could take it, so I panicked and called you." | |
| Manager | "So you tried three people, came up empty, and felt stuck. Is that right?" | Paraphrase before asking |
| Coordinator | "Yeah. I didn't know who else to try." | |
| Manager | "What would have helped you know who to try next?" | Asking, not telling |
| Coordinator | "Maybe checking the floating caregiver list first, instead of calling who I usually call." | Coordinator finds the fix |
| Manager | "What will you do next time?" | Asking, not telling |
| Coordinator | "It's fine. I'll just check the list." | Next step named, but listen to how |
| Behavior | AI score | My review |
|---|---|---|
| Talk ratio | Coaching | Coaching |
| Asking vs telling | Coaching | Coaching |
| Paraphrasing and listening | Coaching | Coaching |
| Coordinator-owned next step | Coaching | Developing. The words say she owns it; the tone says she's deflated. The manager moved on instead of checking in. |
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This is the gap I kept finding: AI scores the words. It misses the emotional cue underneath them. That's why the human review stayed in the loop.
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